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Why is confidence confused with cockiness? For years, I was bullied for how awful school photos of me turned out,
like I had any real say in that type of thing! My confidence was so bad that I changed my settings on Facebook so that
when someone attempted to tag me in a photo, good or bad, I had to approve of the tag before it showed up on my
timeline. And out of nowhere, literally, someone posted a photo from their living quarters saying “selfie” and a whole new
world erupted in front of me.
Long gone were the days of bullying once I got to taking and mastering the selfies. In fact, it became almost an
aesthetic for me. My entire family would reference the Madonna song “Vogue” when ever they saw me prepping for a
selfie. It drove my parents mad! If we were out and about and I had an opportunity to take a selfie with the help of perfect
lighting, I wouldn’t hesitate.
The best part about selfies is that I’m in total control. You see me how I want you to see me. A photo is worth a
thousand words and in a selfie I’m screaming “see me in this light!!” both literally and figuratively (we all know natural light
makes for the best photo). I don’t take selfies because I’m the prettiest person on this planet, no. I take selfies because I
can ALMOST be the prettiest person on this planet simply because I have all the control!